• I don’t feel comfortable with all or part of your screening/deposit process. Can I offer an alternative or screen another way?
    • Nope. My screening process is put in place with both of our safety in mind. I am concerned with making sure you are a SAFE person to see. I do not care to use your information against you in any way – that’s not a profitable move for me. (The ONLY exception I have to this is if you’d like to submit your screening information directly to an approved 3rd party screening service such as Laura Cohen or similar)
    • This DOES include the deposit. If the deposit wards you off, so be it. For me, the deposit is to show you’re serious and committed to our plans & to prevent fantasy bookings.
  • Who do you see & not see?
    • I see anyone who is interested & invested in seeing me that I feel comfortable seeing. Most humans who send in screening meet my standards. I have, very rarely, turned down someone post screening because I did not feel comfortable, safe, or they otherwise raise red flags for me.
    • To be very explicit: I see people of any race, ethnicity, religion, gender, presentation, TLBGQIA+ status, ect.
    • It reserve every right to not see you if I don’t feel safe or comfortable doing so. You will be told explicitly if we are not a match &/or will not be meeting.
  • Do you offer incentives or discounts?
    • Head to my “The Money Talk” page to see the incentives, hourly packages, & discounts I offer.
    • The longer you are booking me for, the more “packaged up” my rates are. I adore getting to relax and unwind together without needing to rush. Overnights, 48 Hour, Weekend Trips, & longer engagements are all welcome!
  • Do you do 15min or 30min appointments?
    • My minimum booking length is 1hr. As with any appointment, the decision to stay the full length of the appointment is up to you.
  • Why don’t you have reviews?
    • I’m not comfortable with them. They create a digital logbook for both of us that I don’t feel is safe or necessary.
  • “Not to be rude but… Are you straight for pay or do you actually enjoy men?”
    • I genuinely didn’t think this was an issue until it had been mentioned too many times to be coincidence.
    • I like all humans! I do genuinely enjoy men (of all kinds). I prefer my relationships with men to be paid relationships, that’s all.
  • How do I know you are really YOU?

    • I have curated an online presence that cannot be falsely replicated. In addition to this site (that I built & edit often) you can find me on Twitter, Switter, ManyVids, & over 10 different advertising sites. It’s really me, baby. Believe it!
    • You can, AFTER SCREENING, purchase a 1-time 30min video chat for $100
  • Can We or Will We eventually spend free time or “off the clock” time together?
    • No.
    • In my world, I have “paid” and “unpaid” relationships, as all of my relationships take work. When you enter into a paid relationship with me, you are accessing MAJOR benefits that my non-paid relationships don’t necessarily get. Please respect & honor this.
    • At no point will we become “friends enough” that our time together is free. My friends in this world support me and my goals financially and I don’t find it friendly for you to discontinue paying me for my time.
  • How do you arrange your schedule?
    • I prefer to take on longer appointments with fewer humans, so my energy is limited but focused and personalized.
    • I like to plan ahead and make YOU part of my plans. So when you book me for multiple hours, I typically block out my entire day to focus my energies on being prepared, in the right head space, and ready to see you!
  • Tell me about your incall…
    • I am based in Denver, Colorado & have a permanent private incall in the heart of the city.
    • My incall has two sets of small stairs to navigate before my door. Smells & sounds are concentrated due to it being a studio sized space. Lighting is typically low or natural lighting. I provide simple non-alcoholic beverages (water, tea, coffee) & anything you may need while visiting.
  • How do I give you the money when we are in person without making it awkward or weird?
    •  My favorite is when you choose a greeting card for me specifically and tuck the money inside. You may also utilize an envelope, gift bag with other goodies, or get more creative with it. But you should know I don’t find it weird or awkward that you’re paying me.
    • When we first greet each other, it should be one of the first things we get out of the way, please. You can hand it to me directly or leave it on a surface in my line of sight.
  • Can I bring you something?
    • Sure! It’s always enjoyable to receive gifts (& tips!)
    • You are welcome to bring any unopened beverage to share (red wine, champagne, sour beer, kombucha, ect), THC products (indicas only), potted house plants, food/snacks, and other gifts.
    • Please ask directly about my preferences & what I’m currently needing or wanting! The best way to ensure I’ll love a gift is to ask what I’d like first (& knowing your budget up front helps!)
  • Do you take outfit, style, makeup, ect. requests?
    • Within reason, yes. I prefer to know what kind of style/vibe you’d like me to go for vs a specific outfit list. If you have specific preferences that I don’t own or can’t meet, you are welcome to send a shopping stipend 48hrs beforehand.
  • Will you wear a wig for our session?
    • This is tricky & your intentions matter. I enjoy my shaved head & find wigs to be a playful addition to an enjoyable time.
    • If you would like me to wear a wig because you find the shaved head style unattractive but otherwise find me attractive, I will wear a wig for double my rates & 2hours max (zero incentives apply).
  • Are you independent or do you work for someone? Are you doing this by choice?
    • I am independent and work for no one other than myself. I am my own business owner and am doing this work by choice. I left working in the profession I trained for in order to pursue this full time!
  • How exactly do I book you? Can you give me the process step by step?
    • Easy. I’ve got you. Just follow these steps exactly & you’ll be good to go!
      • Do Your Research. Read over my whole website, go through my Twitter, ect. Make sure you *want* to book me.
      • Head to the “Screening & Etiquette” page. E-mail or text me the required screening and date information. Wait for me to confirm that we will be meeting.
      • Send a deposit.
      • Wait. Plan. Anticipate. Chill.
      • Show up on time, clean, & excited – with payment in hand.
      • ENJOY YOURSELF! Tip if you want/can. Smile. Laugh.
      • Plan our next rendezvous before you leave or via text or e-mail! That’s it.

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