• I don’t feel comfortable with all or part of your screening/deposit process. Can I offer an alternative or screen another way?
    • If you’d like to submit your screening information directly to an approved 3rd party screening service such as Laura Cohen or similar, that is the ONLY exception I will accept to my personal procedures.
    • Otherwise… Nope. My screening process is put in place with both of our safety in mind. I am concerned with making sure you are a SAFE person to see. I’m not here to blackmail you – that simply wouldn’t be a smart business move anyway.
    • This DOES include the deposit. If the deposit wards you off, so be it. For me, the deposit is to show you’re serious and committed to our plans & to prevent fantasy bookings.
  • Who do you see & not see?
    • I see anyone who is interested & invested in seeing me that I feel comfortable seeing. Most humans who send in screening meet my standards. I have, very rarely, turned down someone post screening because I did not feel comfortable, safe, or they otherwise raise red flags for me.
    • To be very explicit: I see people of any race, ethnicity, religion, gender, presentation, TLBGQIA+ status, ect.
    • It reserve every right to not see you if I don’t feel safe or comfortable doing so. You will be told explicitly if we are not a match &/or will not be meeting.
  • Do you offer incentives or discounts?
    • Not outright. There’s certainly some incentives and perks that appear “behind the scenes” so to speak once you’ve been seeing me though! (this will never mean bare services…)
    • The longer you are booking me for, the more “packaged up” my rates are. I adore getting to relax and unwind together without needing to rush. Overnights, 48 Hour, Weekend Trips, & longer engagements are all welcome!
  • What if I can’t book you for your minimum of 8 hours?
    • My minimum booking length is 8hr. As with any appointment, the decision to stay the full length of the appointment is up to you.
    • If you can’t/don’t want to spend the 8 hrs with me, that’s not a problem. The rate of $1800 is still the minimum to see me privately and we can adjust our plans as needed for a shorter amount of time spent.
    • If you’re just wanting to test the waters and get to know one another, please book a social booking.
  • Why don’t you have reviews?
    • I’m not comfortable with them. They create a digital logbook for both of us that I don’t feel is safe or necessary.
  • “Not to be rude but… Are you straight for pay or do you actually enjoy men?”
    • I genuinely didn’t think this was an issue until it had been mentioned too many times to be coincidence.
    • I like all humans! I do genuinely enjoy men (of all kinds) and love this style of dating far more than I ever enjoyed dating before being a sex worker.
  • How do I know you are really YOU?

    • I have curated an online presence that cannot be falsely replicated. In addition to this site (that I built & edit often) you can find me on Twitter, Switter, ManyVids, & over 10 different advertising sites. It’s really me, baby. Believe it!
    • You can, AFTER SCREENING, purchase a 1-time 30min video chat for $100
  • Can we or will we eventually spend free time or “off the clock” time together?
    • No, thank you.
    • At no point will we become “friends enough” or will “love” be present in a way that our time together is unpaid. My friends, lovers, and loved ones in this world support me and my goals financially and I don’t find it friendly for you to discontinue paying me for my time. We are both adding value to each others lives in this arrangement and I adore that.
  • Tell me about your incall…
    • I am based in Denver, Colorado & have a permanent private incall in the heart of the city.
    • My incall has two sets of small stairs to navigate before my door. Smells & sounds are concentrated due to it being a studio sized space. Lighting is typically low or natural lighting. I provide simple non-alcoholic beverages (water, tea, coffee) & anything you may need while visiting.
  • How do I give you the money when we are in person without making it awkward or weird?
    •  My favorite is when you choose a greeting card for me specifically and tuck the money inside. You may also utilize an envelope, gift bag with other goodies, or get more creative with it. But you should know I don’t find it weird or awkward that you’re paying me. I love it.
    • When we first greet each other, it should be one of the first things we get out of the way, please. You can hand it to me directly or leave it on a surface in my line of sight.
  • Can I bring you something?
    • Sure! It’s always enjoyable to receive gifts (& tips!)
    • You are welcome to bring any unopened beverage to share (red wine, champagne, sour beer, kombucha, ect), THC products (indicas only), potted house plants, food/snacks, and other gifts.
    • Please ask directly about my preferences & what I’m currently needing or wanting! The best way to ensure I’ll love a gift is to ask what I’d like first (& knowing your budget up front helps!)
  • Do you take outfit, style, makeup, ect. requests?
    • Within reason, yes. I prefer to know what kind of style/vibe you’d like me to go for vs a specific outfit list. If you have specific preferences that I don’t own or can’t meet, you are welcome to send a shopping stipend 48hrs beforehand.
  • Will you wear a wig for our session?
    • This is tricky & your intentions matter. I enjoy my shaved head & find wigs to be a playful addition to an enjoyable time.
    • If you would like me to wear a wig because you find the shaved head style unattractive but otherwise find me attractive, I will wear a wig for double my rates & 2hours max (zero incentives apply).
  • Are you independent or do you work for someone? Are you doing this by choice?
    • I am independent and work for no one other than myself in this. I am my own business owner and am doing this work by choice. I left working in the profession I trained for in order to pursue being a sex worker full time! I’m not shy about it if you ask in person either.
  • How exactly do I book you? Can you give me the process step by step?
    • Easy. I’ve got you. Just follow these steps exactly & you’ll be good to go!
      • Do Your Research. Read over my whole website, go through my Twitter, ect. Make sure you *want* to book me.
      • Head to the “Screening & Etiquette” page. E-mail or text me the required screening and date information. Wait for me to confirm that we will be meeting.
      • Send a deposit.
      • Wait. Plan. Anticipate. Chill.
      • Show up on time, clean, & excited – with payment in hand.
      • ENJOY YOURSELF! Tip if you want/can. Smile. Laugh.
      • Plan our next rendezvous before you leave or via text or e-mail! That’s it.

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