• I don’t feel comfortable with all or part of your screening/deposit process. Can I offer an alternative or screen another way?
    • Nope.
    • My screening process is put in place with both of our safety in mind. I am concerned with making sure you are a SAFE person to see, nothing else.
    • This includes the deposit – if it wards you off, so be it. For me, the deposit is to show you’re seriously committed to our plans & to prevent fantasy bookings.
  • Will you see me if…?
    • I see people of any race, ability, ethnicity, religion, gender, presentation, TLBGQIA+ status, ect.
    • I excitedly and enthusiastically see couples and LOVE being booked as a treat for you both!
      • Screening required for both parties!
    • You will be told explicitly if we are not a match &/or will not be meeting. This would likely be because you presented a concern to my safety or I get the strong sense we will not make a good match based on our interactions.
  • How are you handling COVID?
    • I take COVID very seriously. I’ve been vaccinated, boosted, & I get tested if I feel it’s necessary.
    • I wear a mask that covers my mouth and nose when I am around other people.
  • What’s your name? What can I call you?
    • My name is Sid.
    • My name is NOT – babe, baby, sweetie, bb, honey, cutie, sexy, gorgeous, Daddy, Mommy, ect.
    • You may use other titles to address me, once you’ve asked for and been given consent.
  • Why don’t you have reviews?
    • I’m not comfortable with them. Hard pass.
    • You may write me a private review via e-mail after our experience together. I love getting feedback.
  • Do you offer incentives or discounts?
    • Very rarely. You may politely ask if there are any available
    • The longer you are booking me for, the more “packaged up” my rates are. I adore getting to relax and unwind together without needing to rush. Overnights, 48 Hour, Weekend Trips, & longer engagements are all encouraged and prioritized.
  • How do I give you the money without making it awkward or weird?
    • When we first greet each other, it should be the first thing we get out of the way, please. You can hand it to me directly or leave it on a nearby surface.
    • My favorite is when you choose a greeting card for me, tuck cash inside, and write me a little note. Please know I don’t find it weird or awkward that you’re paying me. I love it.
  • Can we or will we eventually spend free time or “off the clock” time together?
    • No, thank you.
    • At no point will our time together be unfinanced. My friends, lovers, and loved ones in this world support me & my goals financially and I don’t find it “friendly” for you to discontinue paying me for my time.
    • We are both adding value to each others lives in this arrangement and I adore that aspect.
  • Can I bring you something? Buy you a gift?

    • Yes, please! It’s always enjoyable to receive gifts and/or tips. Inquire for a mailing address.
    • The best way to ensure I’ll love a gift is to ask what I’d like first (& knowing your budget up front helps!)
    • My wishlist is a great place to look as well!
  • Do you take outfit, style, makeup, ect. requests?
    • Within reason, yes. I prefer to know what kind of style/vibe you’d like me to go for vs a specific outfit list. If you have specific preferences that I don’t own or can’t meet, you are welcome to send a shopping stipend 48hrs beforehand.
  • Are you independent or do you work for someone? Are you doing this by choice?
    • I am independent and work for no one other than myself.
    • Is anyone truly working “by choice” under capitalism? I’m working for the same reasons you do – I find I’m most happy when being paid to bring love, joy, and pleasure to someone’s world.
    • You may politely ask about this in person to learn more.
  • Can I use you as a reference?
    • If we have seen each other in the last 6 months OR you were/are a very close regular of mine, you may use me as a reference.
    • PLEASE let me know ahead of time so I can keep an eye out.
    • Providing references is work and I’d love to see a gift card attached to your email when you reach out to ask me about it.
    • Ultimately, because references are about worker safety, I rarely refuse to give one but you will make my shit list quickly as a client if you abuse this.
  • How exactly do I book you? Can you give me the process step by step?
    • Just follow these steps & you’ll be good to go!
      • Do Your Research. Read over my whole website, go through my Twitter and Instagram, check out my photos, get a feel for my vibe, ect.
      • Head to the “Screening & Etiquette” page. E-mail me the required screening and date information.
      • Send a deposit if requested.
      • Wait. Plan. Anticipate. Chill.
      • Show up on time and excited, with payment in hand.
      • ENJOY YOURSELF! Tip if you want/can.
      • Try not to miss me too much before our next rendezvous 😉

Have a question that’s not answered here or elsewhere on my site? Send respectful suggestions to SidWild@protonmail.com